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The School Year Is About To End. This Summer, Learn the One Parenting Skill That Changes Everything.
The most important parenting skill to acquire and practice over the summer.


To the Mom Whose Mother’s Day Card Said “You’re Fine, I Guess”
A love letter to the most under-appreciated parents on the planet. Let’s talk about Mother’s Day when you have a tween. It’s 9am. You’re still in your pajamas, quietly hoping today will feel special. You’ve set the bar low — coffee, maybe brunch, a few hours together. Nothing elaborate. Just... chosen. Then your 12-year-old appears in the kitchen, phone already in hand, and announces — not asks, announces — that Zoe’s mom is out of town this weekend and could Zoe come over? O


Your Tween Isn't Giving You a Hard Time. They're Having One. (Here's the Decoder Ring.)
The six needs driving every baffling, maddening, occasionally hilarious thing your middle schooler does — and what to actually do about it. It’s Mental Health Awareness Month. And if you have a tween, you’ve probably read at least seven alarming headlines this week about the adolescent mental health crisis. You’re not wrong to pay attention. The data is real. But here’s what those headlines almost never give you: a framework for understanding what’s actually happening with th


Meta Lost. Now What?
This piece helps parents know what to do now that Meta lost its court case. It's still on them.


The Home Stretch...
And, Why Right Now Is the Perfect Time to Actually 'See' Your Middle Schooler Spring break is in the rearview mirror, the cleats are out of the closet, and your tween is already mentally calculating how many school days stand between them and summer. You’re in the home stretch. Which means you’re probably in full logistics mode — spring sports schedules, end-of-year projects, teacher appreciation week (when did that become a week?), and the slow dawning realization that summe


The Social Media Trials Won’t Save Your Kid. But - You Might.
You can (and should) keep up with the legal battles over social media, our kids, and the companies that prey on them. In the meantime, your kid will finish both middle and high school. Here's how you can keep your kid safe while letting them lean into the very natural development some of these apps facilitate.


Cracking the Code: Rituals That Reconnect You with Your Middle Schooler
I was at a friend's summer cocktail party last weekend. The host, an old friend, introduced me to her friend Laura, whose daughter is headed into middle school this fall. I cringe when friends introduce me as a parenting expert, especially at a social event. People like to talk about their kids and share what they're up to ... unless you're a "parenting expert". The minute that tidbit is known, people start avoiding me like I've got a contagious disease! So, I try to kee


Adolescence: The Hilarious, Terrifying Journey from Kid to… What Is That?
L et's be honest, "middle school" and "funny" aren't two words you often hear in the same sentence, unless that sentence is, " It's funny how much I've blocked out about my own middle school years ." For many parents, the mere mention of ages 10-14 elicits a low growl, a nervous twitch, and a desperate plea to the universe for a time machine to fast-forward a few years. We envision a dystopian landscape filled with awkward growth spurts, questionable fashion choices, and the
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